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..... It was all lies

Matthew came to visit again on April 15th. the 3rd week we got to spend together.

I felt like something was so wrong. He would shake and freak out everytime I would touch his phone. I got very suspitious, but I kept trusting him. He told me that there was a surprise in his phone for me, and thats why he didnt want me to see it. I trusted him, but knew inside it wasen't it. It felt so wrong. I was scared, but I knew I couldent trust him without evidence.

So one night I took it and we got in a HUGE fight in front of my family.... because he wouldent unlock the code. And It turned into me slapping him... and I was crying my eyes out... and he managed to get the phone from me and walked away..... when I was breaking down.

Thats when I realized he didnt really care about me. That his phone was more important to me. He made me go by the hottub that night and try to explain why.... but he didn't have an answer. I just pined him down... with my words. Telling him Im done. But the next day I forgave him..... And things went on.

Then my best friend texted me and asked me to call him on his phone since she knew I couldent call before 7 on my phone. So I asked if I could call.... and It was a miracle.... He gave me his phone. but told me to stay right by him... I asked why and he said He just had his last day and that he missed me and wanted to be close to me.. So I said okay.... Once I got started talking with her I moved around the room, and he was stuck right by me. Following me to every room I went. Then... As soon as he turned around I hurried into the bathroom and locked the door.

I quickly went through his messages............. And found the most disturbing things. He was talking to multiple girls.. About seeing them and that he had 1 more day left in California and how he is worth seeing. He told one to sleep with him. ... I was in shock. He was knocking on the door telling me to open it. I quickly wrote down one of the girls numbers and acted like I just got done talking to my friend and opened the door.

I was shaking. I felt like throwig up. But I acted like I didn't see anything. I didnt know what to do......

Later that day he was acting so weird.. I talked to the girl. and he knew because he called her and asked if a girl from California called her. He was on the couch with the most emptyest eyes... ive never seen him that way. I was avoiding him. I locked myself in a room and wouldet open it. So he climed through the window! He is crazy!! I was scared. He started telling me... that I was acting strange and we needed to talk.

He didnt know what I read and knew so he was being very shut. I told him to explain and he just stood there blank... I never ever seen him that way... He looked so cold.... so... scary. And then I said it all. I repeated everything dirty he said
and he just dropped. He looked like a psyco person. I was scared but I wasent giving up. He started saying that I was crazy and that what I read wasent there so I started slapping him SO hard then he caught my hand and told me hed call the police on this.. and me and my sisters and my cousin were soo afraid of him so we just ran out of the house and he stood there with the knife he tried opening my door with and told us to come to him. We just RAN. We were so scared. His eyes didnt look human. They looked so scary and empty.. Like when a criminal is caught. When he knows hes busted.

We called my parents and they came and my Dad told him he had to go.... I was so happy he was ashamed in front of my whole family. That everyone knew what a liar he was. He followed me and asked many times to talk to me before he went. I rejected. I gave him enough changes before all of this happened.

I felt so betrayed as I saw him drive off to the airport.....................

I couldent believe it. I was still in shock. But I was praying soo hard this whole time, that if I needed to know something about him that I would find out. And God helped me catch him. I don't know how I was strong enough to do it. But I am so thankful I did.

I was so hurt the first 2 days. NEVER in my life did I ever think he could of done this to me :( Ever. I couldent believe it. Tears fell on my face like.... when Cj died. and... because I found out he lied about seeing and being sexual with other girls... I dont know what else he lied about..... So I am in fear EVERYTHING he said was a lie.

I blocked him everywhere. My phone, texts, facebook. everything. He tried contacting me but I blocked him. He wrote my sister  but she baely responded. I dont know what hes doing right now.... Probably seeing other girls. But all I know is that Lord was mercyful unto me and I found out the truth and he went home with shame.

And I never want to see him again. If he only knew what he lost.

Tomorrow Im going to Vegas with my best girls. and you know what... It might still hurt so bad.... but I know Im strong enough to get through this. To know how much better I am without him. That I gave a slumdog a chance. Someone who didnt deserve me so bad. And he went and lied about everything. I think he is a sick person. That he is damaged in the head.

Because a normal person wouldent be able to lie about all his life.... and have the look in his eyes like I saw him. I just pray he recognizes his mistake and NEVER puts through any other girl what he put me through.

Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy upon us sinners.